Rituals & Resources

There is no specific prayer required when lighting a yahrzeit candle. Trust us, we confirmed this with Rabbis. What matters is the intention you bring too it. Here are some ideas for inspiration.

Say a prayer. Our Yahrzeit candle’s package has options right on the label.

Journal about the year gone by

Display a few photos or beloved objects by the candle

Sit quietly and meditate

Play their favorite song and dance it out

Visit one of their favorite places

Tell someone a story about your loved one

Donate tzedakah to a cause they loved

Ritual-building resources

The internet is really good at this if you know where to look.

Read a poem

  • 10 life-affirming poems about death

    from Literary Hub

  • 10 poems for loss, grief, consolation

    from Poets.org

  • 10 life-affirming poems about death

    from Literary Hub

  • 10 poems for loss, grief, consolation

    from Poets.org

Read a poem

How do you know you found a good poem? It speaks to you!

10 life-affirming poems about death

from literary hub

10 poems for loss, grief, and consolation

from poets.org

10 life-affirming poems about death

from literary hub

Poems read aloud

Alysia Harris "Death Poem"

Michael Rosen “The Death of Eddie”

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  • Alysia Harris - Death Poem

    Alysia Harris - Death Poem

    I always appreciate poems that take something big and universal, something that we all already “understand” on an intellectual level, and challenge us to see that something in a new way. Death, for example, is everywhere, every day, something we all have to deal with in one way or another.

  • Michael Rosen - The Death of Eddie

    Michael Rosen - The Death of Eddie

    In 1999, Eddie Steele Rosen - son, brother, friend and very much his own true self - died. He caught meningitis. He was 18 years old. It was a shock to all who knew and loved him and now, nearly 25 years later, he's very much remembered and loved. We think of him every day, we remember his jokes, we remember his hopes. Sometimes it's hard to cope with him not being there. We imagine him seeing all the things we've been doing.