Rituals & Resources
There is no specific prayer required when lighting a yahrzeit candle. Trust us, we confirmed this with Rabbis. What matters is the intention you bring too it. Here are some ideas for inspiration.
Say a prayer. Our Yahrzeit candle’s package has options right on the label.
Journal about the year gone by
Display a few photos or beloved objects by the candle
Sit quietly and meditate
Play their favorite song and dance it out
Visit one of their favorite places
Tell someone a story about your loved one
Donate tzedakah to a cause they loved
Ritual-building resources
The internet is really good at this if you know where to look.
Read a poem
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10 life-affirming poems about death
from Literary Hub
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10 poems for loss, grief, consolation
from Poets.org
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10 life-affirming poems about death
from Literary Hub
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10 poems for loss, grief, consolation
from Poets.org
Read a poem
How do you know you found a good poem? It speaks to you!
10 life-affirming poems about death
from literary hub
10 poems for loss, grief, and consolation
from poets.org
10 life-affirming poems about death
from literary hubPoems read aloud
Alysia Harris "Death Poem"
Michael Rosen “The Death of Eddie”

